tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307964706905270102.post60403024443077723..comments2023-07-06T03:51:07.537-07:00Comments on Blog of Lom (Löma) Nal: John Knapp Blames the Victim (Part 2)Unknownnoreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307964706905270102.post-61259769952615732232011-10-03T07:06:46.755-07:002011-10-03T07:06:46.755-07:00Oops. I listed cruel and sadistic twice. Sorry abo...Oops. I listed cruel and sadistic twice. Sorry about the typo.<br /><br />I feel I should also note that the descriptions/labels that others stated were stated with various parts of speech. Such as that I was lying and what I was doing (based on Knapp's statements about me) was what a sociopath does. So technically, I don't recall if anyone used the term "liar"...but rather that I had lied. To me there is a difference between labeling an action and labeling a person.<br /><br />That said, I wouldn't be surprised if within the diatribe(s) Knapp (or someone else) called me a liar.onepersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10395600714257162622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307964706905270102.post-40135564566386353442011-09-30T06:26:34.443-07:002011-09-30T06:26:34.443-07:00Just for the record and since the FB threads are n...Just for the record and since the FB threads are no longer viewable to the public, following are some of the labels/descriptions of me written by Knapp and others that commented: <br />sadistic, terroristic, cyber-stalker, cyber-harraser, sociopath, manipulator, sadistic, cruel, needy, cruel, crazier than a shithouse rat, defamatory, manipulator, professional victim, sex propositoiner, destroyer, mud dragger, liar, singer of the same song as the crazies who run The Way International. <br /><br />There's probably more.<br /><br />And that doesn't include the labels and or descriptions given to Monica or you.onepersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10395600714257162622noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-7307964706905270102.post-47808948777328833592011-09-28T09:48:03.325-07:002011-09-28T09:48:03.325-07:00I've had almost a month now to think this stuf...I've had almost a month now to think this stuff over, examine, analyze, etc. Not a day passes that I don't think about it. That day will come, but it may be awhile.<br /><br />I've been able to finally read through the statements on Knapp's FB thread (some of which have apparently been deleted by the authors since the initial posting...or at least some of which have disappeared).<br /><br />It appears that people who responded there make assessments of me based on Knapp's description of me. Yet, they don't know me at all. [One guy who comments on that FB thread, in the past falsely accused (1) me of inviting him to an " 'Adult' style internet experience" and falsely accused (2) a discussion board of having TWI loyalists and "get[ting] dirt on Greasespotters and then publically shame[ing] them with the information they got there"...neither of which are true. The person twisted my words and apparently assessed the other board based on someone else's opinion.]<br /><br />Anyway, point is...it appears that folks who have posted on that FB thread haven't bothered to really read my side of the story and probably not even the complaint. I get that; there is only so much energy and time in a day. Plus they trust Knapp. And Knapp links to no posts on my blog...at least that I'm aware of. None, zip, zero, nada. In my opinion, he should have at least posted a link to the complaint and the retraction. I imagine if he decides to add links on his posts directing people to my blog, he'd cherry pick those links.<br /><br />This morning I spent time perusing <a href="http://tossandripple.blogspot.com/search/label/John%20M.%20Knapp" rel="nofollow">the posts I have on my blog that are labeled with Knapp as part of the subject of those posts</a>. Most of the posts are memoir pieces and personal journal entries I wrote over the past year, pennings that had been in hiding before I brought them public beginning around June, 2011. From my perspective, those are more an exposure of my soul than of Knapp's behavior or an assessment of Knapp's character...which I'm not even sure if I engaged in. I'd have to read a bit more of my blog post ramblings to discover if that (assessing Knapp's character) is the case. It's not something I typically engage in.<br /><br />Someone sent me an email in August, 2011. They had been a former client of Knapp. They stated to me that they had read all my blog posts, but couldn't find what it was that Knapp had specifically done that I considered abusive. Thinking of that now, it impresses upon me that, in my writings previous to mid-August, I shared more about me than about Knapp's actions toward me. <br /><br />It was due to that email that I decided on August 16, 2011, (or thereabouts) to bring the complaint public and post it on my blog.onepersonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10395600714257162622noreply@blogger.com